Too Many Sex Partners

Sex is a feeling that many people crave. In some situations, it can turn into an addiction. Nowadays sex is no “big deal” to most people. The real problem comes into play when a person starts having too many sexual partners. Hey, I’m not trying to bash anyone in this article so calm down. I just want to make certain individuals aware of what they’re doing.

First of all, when you want to get yourself sexually involved with someone make sure you know what you’re doing. Sex is nothing to play around with. You share bodily fluids with someone else, feelings are involved (sometimes), STDS, and even pregnancies. Do you fully evaluate the person you want to have sex with? Maybe what you are feeling towards that person is only temporary. Are there times when you think to yourself the effects that sex may cause on you? Sure you may see it as something fun to do at the moment. But think about it this way is the sex worth giving a piece of yourself to the other person. Show a little respect towards yourself because not everybody deserves to get an intimate taste of you. 

Especially if you have a circle of people you like to have sex with. How many sex partners is enough? Look, it’s nothing wrong with having some fun. Don’t think I’m trying to preach to you or think I am some full ball of innocence because that’s not the intention of this article. You’re not going to find your emotional fulfillment in sex. No matter how many people you mess around with. Sex can cause so much confusion. Don’t let yourself get caught up in the hype. Just be careful about having too many partners you want to sleep with.

What’s your thoughts on someone that has too many sex partners? Feel free to express your opinion.

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7 Comments

  1. Interesting topic!
    I don’t know where to start.
    Fornication is a sin.
    Now do I believe that people should wait until marriage to have sex? I have mixed feelings about that.
    The more partners people have, more likely the rate of unwanted pregnancies, abortions, and single parents will increase. So having alot of sex partners is not a good thing.
    But at the same time I also feel that as long as you protect yourself, there is nothing wrong with having multiple sex partners. Sex is as well healthy and some people are only looking for sex and not commitment.
    Now overall we all should be careful with having too many sex partners but if everybody you had sex, you protected yourself then I believe that multiple sex partners is something to not be ashamed(but I still don’t recommend having alot of sex partners)
    Also you and you can still catch an STD from a person that had sex with one other person previously before you came along.
    What matter more is if the person you had sex with was tested. People should be judge more based on rather they were tested rather than how many partners they had.
    Now what’s tooo much sex partners? This is a tough question. I guess would say if it’s to the point where you can’t remember all the people you had sex with, or if the # of sex partners is more than to your age

    1. I understand the points you made. When I say many sex partners I mean at least having sex with more than 3 people in the same time frame or at the same time. Yes, you’re right even if you’re with one person you can catch an STD. I agree with you too when you said as long as you stay protected then you shouldn’t be ashamed. Thanks for sharing your thoughts though. You made valid points!

  2. I feel that this question may depend on the individuals level of emotional maturity. Someone who has been through trauma and has attachment issues for instance is more likely to have many sex partners in the chase for ‘affection’ or ‘euphoric high’. However this is of course the wrong way of approaching it and is synonymous to attaching a plaster to a bullet wound. However someone with many sex partners may now be at the point where they realise the deeper power of sex. Meaning a higher view of self so less likely to engage in meaningless casual sex. This however doesn’t change that having many sex partners does lead to a lot of soul ties. It is good to cut off most ties at this stage ~ my thoughts on the topic. A very interesting one! Nice read xx💞

    1. Thanks for sharing your thoughts. I like the way you thought about this topic. True sex doesn’t always have to connect to any type of attachment or affection. I hope I understood you correctly.

      1. Sort of lol. I can’t see any benefits from having sex with lots of emotionally unavailable people aside from possible long term commitment issues. I don’t believe people with lots of sex partners should be stigmatised though they usually have their own baggage and reasonings. Hope that made better sense

  3. It is possible to divide sex into 2 categories,
    1 – the sex you have with your partner, and only your partner. This (should) involve feelings, emotional attachment. And can be solely for the purpose of having a baby, rather than the desire aspect.

    2 – the sex you have with people who arnt your partner. Sometimes it’s with friends, or strangers, sometimes there is a sort of relationship or connection and sometimes it is completely meaningless. In this category you can have sex that is a form of adult entertainment.

    Judging by the comments, I’ve had more sexual partners than all of you put together haha. Including 5 guys at once 😇
    I don’t know my exact total, but I do know it’s roughly about 65, which is more than my age lol. I don’t have sex for numbers. I do it as adult fun between like minded people. I also have a partner who I have the most amazing sex with and he means the world to me.

    As for the “sex is a sin” comment above… who wants to go to heaven… when all the best parties are in hell 😈

    Also… if you are worried about STI’s…. have you not heard of condoms? Lol

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