Violence in America

Every time I look at the news or get on social media I see some type of new crime happening. Mainly the crime consist of someone is getting shot. Innocent people are getting killed. It’s a shame that the country who is supposed to be united is getting torn apart by violence itself. America is turning into a place you would less likely want to be at this point. It shouldn’t be this way. No one should have to live in fear because the majority of America is inhumane. THE VIOLENCE HAS TO STOP!

People here always want to talk about how disgusted or sad they are about the violence but still don’t do anything about it. Obviously, some of them don’t care as much as they say. Then again individuals have their own ways of making a positive change in the world. Thank God for the people who do take action. We still need more people who stand up against the violence and isn’t afraid to speak up. We have been quiet for too long.

AREN’T YOU TIRED OF IT?

How long is it going to take to open people eyes to realize that gun violence itself is a huge problem. Everyone wants it for protection which I understand that point of view. The only thing about having a gun is the group of individuals who use it for the wrong reasons and take advantage of it. Aren’t you tired of seeing innocent people dying? Or worrying about if your LOVED ONES or YOU are going to live to see another day. This is truly sickening to the stomach. Sometimes I believe it is good that the majority of us get to see how cruel the world is. This is a way to spark someone to do better and make a change.

Then we have the bad side of certain people viewing the violence. You know we live in a monkey see and monkey do (copy what others are doing) type of world. They love copying the negative but slow on trying to copy positive actions.

You see it’s a back and forth situation with the violence because everyone processes it differently. I hope people will come together more to stop the chaos that’s going on. It shouldn’t have got this bad anyway. What’s your thoughts of the violence in America or in the world in general? Do you constantly worry what’s going to happen next? Do you believe there will be a change in the near future? No thoughts or opinions are off limits. Remember to be respectful to others if you do share your opinions though.

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Women Provoke Men to Do Crazy Things

One thing that annoys me is the women who provoke men then play the victim when the man does something crazy to them. I have no respect for you if you are this type of woman. Especially, if it is a man or person who doesn’t deserve to be in a situation like this anyway. This is a message for those type of women STOP PLOTTING TO DO STUFF LIKE THIS. It’s not cute at all. One day, something crazy will happen to you then no one will believe you because all you do is cry wolf.

So, I am scrolling through my timeline on IG I see one of my followers post a screenshot of a message they got on Facebook messenger. Basically, the person on the message was telling my follower to stop reacting to their post, their tired of the bs, and my follower better be careful before they have to bury their kid. Now that last part of the message threw me off guard. Honestly, I took the threat seriously and it wasn’t directed towards me. People love talking reckless on social media it’s crazy.

Anyways, so after I read the screenshot I then read the caption of the picture. My follower started saying “the moment you don’t want to be with someone anymore and you react to the stuff they post on your wall and they inbox you this.” Then my follower proceeds to say that the person who message them is desperate and have nothing going for them self. Alright, so that was what my follower said. The person name got tagged in the IG post too.

The problem I have with this situation is the fact she intentionally tried to bother her ex-boyfriend. If you so call don’t want him then why are you taking your time to get some type of attention from him. Since I am being honest about the situation I feel like she is embarrassing herself more than embarrassing the man. Think about this if she didn’t react to any of man posts then he probably wouldn’t have sent her that crazy message. Even though I don’t know both of them personally I am just commenting on what I saw on social media. Seems like my follower is drama filled anyway.

The whole point of this article is the fact that most women do certain things intentionally to provoke men. Once the man does or says something bizarre to the woman then she wants to play like a victim. I can’t stand when any female does that. I swear they take advantage of the whole fact they are a woman and can technically get away with the situation. If you are going to bother a man or a person in general to the point you provoke them to do something crazy. Be ready for the person to spazz out on you!

For the women who love provoking men please stop it because you knew exactly what you were trying to do. You want the man to act crazy, so you can make him look like a bad person and take things to the extreme. If you get offended by this then you are probably a person who does stuff like this.

No, I am not saying a man or anyone, in general, should put their hands on a woman or do anything else crazy. I am saying if you keep bothering a person and hitting that nerve where they want to spazz out then don’t be surprised when they turn deranged. Every action gets a reaction. Watch how you do certain things. You are a foul person anyway if you do something evil then put the blame on someone else.

So, you made it to the end of this article I want to know your thoughts on this topic. Yeah, I may have started up a debate… oh well someone had to speak up about this. Do you think SOME women provoke men in situations? Have you ever been in a position where someone provokes you to do something out of your character? Let’s have a discussion in the comment section.

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Men Explain This

On social media, most of the time I see different men go crazy over attractive women. Especially the ones who are well known or popular all over the internet. Of course, it is in men nature to look at women. I am talking about the men who stay on social media apps for hours and are in the comment section of a lot of women pictures. It’s the same username you repeatedly see in the comments over hyping the woman. It’s nothing wrong with complimenting a woman but don’t make yourself look thirsty.

I have a question though why do most men always glorify IG models or baddies (sexy women) on social media? I mean I know the women are beautiful and all but dang why can’t you give the regular cute chick some attention sometimes. You don’t have to make yourself look thirsty or anything. What is wrong with a less popular woman on social media. Is it because she is not showing enough of her body or being sexy on the gram? I need some answers.

Even though most of you do not know exactly what I look like unless want to or trying to follow me on social media @reflectionofdes (hint hint) I am not ugly. I got a cute little face, but guys do not seem to pay me any attention and I am actually a decent person. Of course, they would not know that because they NEVER try to talk to me. I guess cause I am not wild or sexy enough.

Then again when I think about when men give popular women on social media attention most of the time they have the wrong intentions anyway. All attention is not good attention. I know those women get tired of those thirsty men all in the comments or their DMs. Hell, even an average woman like me get a few thirsty DMs every now and then. Thank God it is not too often. I swear men are thirstier than women. Then they think or believe if they keep bothering a woman she will finally give him attention. Sometimes it does work but the majority of the time it will result in the man getting blocked or embarrassed because the woman posts screenshots on their profile of messages and comments. We all know how that goes.

From a woman point of view the whole excessive DMs that is annoying and a big turn off. At least a turn off for me. Yes, I know all men do not hype up most women on Facebook, Instagram, or Twitter that is why I try to carefully say SOME! So, do not come at me crazy! What makes the social media famous women so special? Their attractiveness, the easy access to see pics of them, they are the type of woman you fantasize about? I am so eager to know the answer.

Another thing I want to mention is I am not hating on those type of women. I do not blame them for showing off their beauty. It is paying off nowadays most companies want to see a sexy or beautiful face to promote their products anyway. They know those faces bring attention! Do not get me wrong everyone is beautiful in their own way though. This whole article is about how curious my mind is about men opinion about these women.

If you read this article until the end I want to know your thoughts on this topic. We can have a discussion in the comment section. Do you think men always draw their attention to women popular on social media? Even if you disagree with some of the things I mention in this article let me know.

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Fake Relationship Trend on YouTube

Since everyone got hip to the “couple trend” on YouTube it started getting out of hand. All they want to do is get rich quick. It’s a shame what people will do for money. Why fake a relationship? Eventually, people will uncover the truth anyway. Do you want to mess up your reputation just because of a trend? What a shame. It’s not that deep. You can still make it into the YouTube world if you be yourself. That’s what it’s all about anyway.

To the ones that want to join this trend. Think about how you will hurt the YouTube community. Your wrongdoing can/will affect other creators. Like I mentioned in my podcast making money on YouTube is a privilege. Don’t abuse or take advantage of it. Why do you think the creators of YouTube get stricter with their rules? They enforce these rules to kill away fake creators. Trust me they are hip to the game. They know exactly what’s going on.  But of course, people will always try to find a way to finesse it.

Also, think about how many careers you’ll effect. I mean sure the bigger creators have other opportunities, but YouTube is still the platform that built their career. If you still do not take my advice, then I hope you’re ready for the YouTube drama. Fans on YouTube attack you hard like Bey Hive and everybody know not to mess with them.

YouTube is a platform you should take seriously. There are so many talented, beautiful, and helpful creators on there. They work hard to produce amazing content. YouTubing isn’t as easy as you may think it is. There’s a lot that goes on behind the scenes. Another thing to remember is YouTube success doesn’t happen overnight. It takes time. Stop the fake relationship trend or any other trend that you think will give you “quick cash.”

After reading this article what are your thoughts on the fake relationship trend on YouTube? Do you think it’s a good idea or not? Share your thoughts in the comment section.

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People True Personality Shows on Social Media

If you want to figure out someone true personality, follow them on social media. On social media a lot of people use their social media account as a tool to express their feelings. No matter if they have a small or large number of followers. After a while their account is an open diary for others to read. Even though you may not think people are paying attention to what you post. They are watching what your posts. Especially if it’s someone you know personally.

Sometimes we post things on our social media without thinking about it first. That’s mostly because we post based on our feelings. What I’m trying to say is whether we are mad, sad, or happy. We feel the need to tell everyone about it on social media. It’s our outlet to vent. For some reason most of us aren’t ashamed to express our feelings on the internet.

The point I’m getting at is that once we start expressing our self freely on social media. It’s how most people can view the type of personality we have. You could post a random status saying, “I love pizza.” One of your followers learn a fact about you. Or you could post “my passion is to help as many people as I can.” Simple posts like that can tell details about you.

Social media will always have a way of showing everyone’s true personality. It’s a platform that is made for us to express who we are freely right? So, tell me do you believe that people true personality shows on social media? If you don’t agree with anything in this article. I still want to know your thoughts on this topic.

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Deceiving People Can Fool You 

There are some people out there who are deceiving. When you first meet them, they give you the impression that they have pure intentions. When in actuality their intentions are to feed their own selfish needs. Once you get to know the person on a deeper level. Certain things that they do starts to make sense. For example, when they come around other people everyone starts acting differently towards them. When I say different I mean everyone is having a good time then suddenly, their mood turns sour. When a certain someone comes around. The vibe is thrown off. A person presence can tell you a bit about them.

Deceiving people can come in the forms of a friend, stranger, or family. They could be someone who’s rich or poor. You’re getting the point, right? If anyone ever fooled you into thinking they’re a sweet person and care about you. Then later they transformed into a person you don’t even recognize.  Don’t feel like you’re stupid. This happens to all of us. It shows you how you should be careful with trusting others. Everyone is not trustworthy.

Remember that deceiving people love taking advantage of the weak. Try not to show your vulnerability too quick. Some people can sense it quicker than others. Also, they will try to play mind games with you. I’m sure you’re catching my point by now. So, tell me have you ever encounter an incident with a deceiving person or people? Like you thought they were a good person but their goal the whole time was to trick you into thinking that. Let’s have a full discussion in the comment section.

 

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4 Reasons Why You’re Not Consistent with Blogging

Blogging, in general, is tough when you try to have a consistent schedule. You want to have your full focus on your blog. Sometimes it doesn’t happen that way. Even when you want it to. I will tell you 4 reasons why you’re not consistent with blogging.

1) Your life outside of blogging is busy: Life outside your blogging world is probably hectic. Most of us do have crazy situations going on outside of the internet world. It’s tends to cause a big distraction.

2) Feel unmotivated: It’s sucks to not have any mojo about writing when that’s all you want to do. Feeling unmotivated is a case of laziness sometimes. It sucks you in and it’s hard to get out of. You probably feel unmotivated because people haven’t support you like they used to.

3) Overthinking a Topic: Over thinking a topic you want to blog about can turn into a big problem. If the topic is on your mind. Go ahead and write about it! Don’t hold back. Most of the time the topics we try not to write about end up getting good results. It’s like when you’re insecure about wearing an outfit to an event but end up receiving so many compliments on it. Life is about living with no regrets. Take advantage of it.

4) Feeling like your blog is boring: It’s normal to feel like your blog is boring to your readers. You only think that way because you aren’t getting enough feedback. The other reason that might make you feel this way is the fact that you’re not interested in your posts.

There will be a point in your blogging journey when you’ll be able to stay consistent. Balancing your time will help you out a bit. Just keeping pushing through. I promise you everything will start flowing the way you want it to.

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Life Changes Everything Around Us

There is always one thing that ruins your whole mood. It’s crazy how one little thing can change everything! Especially when your life is going so well. It’s like that saying “it’s too good to be true.” Anyways, it doesn’t take much for certain things to ruin your mood.

For example, you could’ve got good news about getting a job promotion. You’re excited to tell your close family, friends, and your significant other. The first person you call about the news is your significant other. Before you can tell the news, your boyfriend or girlfriend wants to break up with you. Your feelings are crushed. Your whole mood is ruined. You see how quick everything can change your mood?

Life has a funny way of changing like that. Most of the time we are confused to why bad things are happening. You start to feel like bad luck follows you. That’s not the case though. The bad events that happen in your life is to teach you lessons. Learning from those lessons helps you become wiser. Change is not always a bad thing. Accept changes that come into your life.

Your mood affects everything around you. You’ll notice it in the way you start physically doing things. Also, the way you do things mentally. Don’t let one event in your life take control. Moods are only temporary. Keep that in mind. So, tell me how has one event in your life change your mood or mindset? Let’s get this discussion going in the comment section.

 

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Music Makes Your Problems Go Away

No matter what mood we are in. Music seems to cure our problems for a while. All we have to do is find a playlist that fits our mood. Then we vibe to the playlist through our earphones. Vibing to the playlist takes you to a whole other universe. All your thoughts get release into the melody and lyrics of the music. That’s the best feeling ever.

Have you always wonder why music makes us feel better? Music has a special touch to connect with our hearts. Words can’t describe the magical feeling of music healing your soul. It touches a spot no one else can heal. Literally, music is life! 

Music is one thing you can always count on through a troubling situation. Take advantage of the music around you. Music change lives. Let’s not forget how it leaves a positive effect on our mood. It gives us a happy spirit! Don’t you agree? Think about how different the world would function without music. Life would be dull.

LET MUSIC BE YOUR HEALER

Let the music take away your problems. Don’t let your thoughts drown you. Soak into the music. Your troubles won’t bother you forever. Stay strong and let music be your cure.

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The Dream was Good Maybe It’s A Sign

Last night I had an odd dream. I was in some place full of people inside a building. Maybe it was a school or something because it was people my age there. Also, I remember my mom being there too. I heard an old friend say so many good things about me. The only weird thing about it is the fact I heard the person voice without getting a chance to see their face.

It thrown me off because when I turned around I couldn’t figure out the person in the room who was talking to my mom. In a curious way I believe my dream was trying to tell me something. My dreams always do that to me. There is a special message that I have to figure out before it happens.Anyways, the sign in this dream is telling me that an old person in my life is going to show up again. If that’s not the message. Then maybe it’s a friend that I already have talking good about me to someone else besides my mom. You know dreams set up situations to give you a special message. In reality, the situations may turn into a different form than you expect it. Have any of you had a weird or odd dream recently? 

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