Music Makes Your Problems Go Away

No matter what mood we are in. Music seems to cure our problems for a while. All we have to do is find a playlist that fits our mood. Then we vibe to the playlist through our earphones. Vibing to the playlist takes you to a whole other universe. All your thoughts get release into the melody and lyrics of the music. That’s the best feeling ever.

Have you always wonder why music makes us feel better? Music has a special touch to connect to our hearts. Words can’t describe the magical feeling of music healing your soul. It touches a spot no one else can heal. Literally, music is life! 

Music is one thing you can always count on through a troubling situation. Take advantage of the music around you. Music change lives. Let’s not forget how it leaves a positive effect on our mood. It gives us a happy spirit! Don’t you agree? Think about how different the world would function without music. Life would be dull.

LET MUSIC BE YOUR HEALER

Let music take away your problems. Don’t let your thoughts drown you. Soak into the music. Your troubles won’t bother you forever. Stay strong and let music be your cure.

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The Dream was Good Maybe It’s A Sign

Last night I had an odd dream. I was in some place full of people inside a building. Maybe it was a school or something because it was people my age there. Also, I remember my mom being there too. I heard an old friend say so many good things about me. The only weird thing about it is the fact I heard the person voice without getting a chance to see their face.

It thrown me off because when I turned around I couldn’t figure out the person in the room who was talking to my mom. In a curious way I believe my dream was trying to tell me something. My dreams always do that to me. There is a special message that I have to figure out before it happens.Anyways, the sign in this dream is telling me that an old person in my life is going to show up again. If that’s not the message. Then maybe it’s a friend that I already have talking good about me to someone else besides my mom. You know dreams set up situations to give you a special message. In reality, the situations may turn into a different form than you expect it. Have any of you had a weird or odd dream recently? 

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Not Enough Time in a Day to Manage

It’s not enough time in a day. Even planning ahead of time seems like it doesn’t work. Maybe I’m not good at time management. How do some of you balance your time in the day? If you don’t know how to manage your time. What are some distractions do you run into? Sometimes I get writer’s block. It happens at the wrong time. Especially when I’m in the mood to post an article for my readers. It’s crazy how I want to write but my ideas don’t always come together like I want them to. I’m sure every writer feels that way sometimes.

Maybe that wastes my time during the day. I’m stuck on focusing on not having my ideas together. When I could just freestyle write. For example, write random posts without having my attention on one thing. I don’t know if that make sense to any of you. Anyways, time flies by in the day when you waste it. Honestly, it’s faster than the time when you’re having fun. Another thing I want to mention is when unexpected plans come up. There are times I don’t mind because I want to get out the house. Other times I feel annoyed because I have blogging work to do. Let me stop complaining here. Here’s a questions for my readers how do you manage your time? 

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Why Long Distance Relationships are Special

Most people can’t handle being in a LDR (long distance relationship). They always feel like they need their partner around 24/7. Don’t get me wrong people in an LDR want the same, but we’re not as clingy. We are strong enough to handle not being physically around our significant other, any temptation that might try to break up our relationship, and the negative opinions that are said about our relationships. Even though, we will love to have our boyfriend or girlfriend around us we are able to remain faithful to them. There is no such thing of not being able to handle a long distance relationship because if you really care or love someone genuinely you won’t even give them a suspicion of questioning your loyalty. I mean don’t get me wrong I know some couples go through situations and if the solution to their problems is breaking up that’s fine. Long distance relationships are built for people who don’t mind taking sacrifices and being patient. Lord knows it’s hard to have patience when you want to see the person you love in person every day. Long distance relationships are special because not too many people can boldly say that they had enough courage to stay in their relationship without distance affecting the way they love their significant other.  Question for my readers: What makes your long distance relationship special? 

 

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Worst Emotion a Person Can Feel

Heartbreak is the worst emotion a person can feel. It’s a pain you’ll never get used to. The pain can literally kill you inside. When people used to say you can die from a heartbreak. I didn’t take what they said seriously until I had my first one. My heart felt like it shut down on me. Nothing would make me go back in time to experience that again. Heartbreak doesn’t feel good at all. Most would say they wouldn’t wish that on their worse enemy. I don’t blame them because I wouldn’t neither. Our emotions get the best of us. Sometimes it may feel like we can’t control them. Don’t let your emotions stop you from following your heart.  Would you consider heartbreak as an emotion?

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4 Reasons Why Summer is Annoying

Summer is the season most people enjoy but it is annoying sometimes. It brings out the most annoying bugs, chaos, and outrageous heat. Some of us know that summer isn’t as glorious as certain people make it seem. Let’s get into 4 reasons why summer is annoying.

Reasons Why…

1) BUGS – Every flying and crawling insect likes to come out during the summer. More than likely it’s because of the hot weather. It’s difficult to enjoy being outside without bugs bothering you. Most people hate to get bit by bugs. The bites cause us to itch and get irritated easily. Bugs are irritating little creatures.

2) The HEAT – Summer is known for its scorching hot temperatures. The heat will drain all your energy. All the heat does is bring out nasty attitudes and have you soaked in sweat. No one likes how miserable the heat makes us.

3) Booked Hotel Rooms – Most hotels are full of reservations when summer comes. This is when everyone wants to go on vacation. If you haven’t booked your hotel room a few months ahead of time. It will be hard for you to find a luxurious hotel that’s not booked. You’ll be lucky if someone cancels their reservations.

4) Keeping Grass Cut – This reason interferes with every season. For some reason, it seems like it’s harder to keep your grass cut low during the summer. Usually, it is because of all the rain this season brings in. A lot of rain makes the grass grow faster. It’s a big headache when you want to keep your yard looking nice all the time.

Overall, summer has its annoying moments. This still doesn’t stop most people from enjoying it though. Don’t let the reasons above change your thoughts on summer. You can enjoy it minus those reasons. What’s the most annoying thing to you about summer? 

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Don’t Creep Anyone Out with Your Profile Picture

On social media, it’s always good to have a profile picture. If you don’t have one it is sort of creepy especially if you try to follow or give a friend request to people you don’t know. Most people will think you’re a fake account. Nobody likes to accept anyone without a picture.

For the people who do put up a profile picture. Is your profile picture presentable enough to make people feel comfortable to follow you? Or does it scare them off?  A presentable picture would be a nice picture of you smiling. You can even get your model status on and make different facial expressions or poses for a good profile picture. A creepy profile picture, such as a picture of you holding a knife in your hand with bloodshot eyes. Who wants to follow a person that has that as their profile picture? First of all, it’s scary. Second, it shows that the person is a little crazy.

Don’t get me wrong I know people love having silly pictures as their profile picture. Sometimes certain pictures are not funny to everyone. Just keep that in mind. If you’re a comedian or a person that likes being silly all the time. Please let it be known for the people who don’t know you personally. So, they will understand your silly or outrageous pictures.

When someone follows me on social media that I do not know. I always overview their profile before attempting to follow them back. First, I start with reading the stuff that they post. Then I see if they have any uploaded pictures that don’t make it obvious they’re a fake profile. Also, I try to see what location the person is from. It helps me to figure out if they are from my area and we might have a mutual friend. If the person location is not from my area that is cool too. I like making friends from all over the world. Last but not least I read their bio. It helps me learn about their personality a bit.

In conclusion, your profile picture can help or hurt you with gaining followers. As they all say, your first impression is important. Don’t scare or creep people out with your picture.

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 What makes a profile picture creepy to you? 

 

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Why Glorify being a Hoe?

As I scroll down my timeline on social media. I always see many young women glorify sleeping around with other women boyfriends or husbands. It disgusts me. Why would you want to take credit for doing something like that? Where are some of these women morals? Women who think this is a cute thing to do should be ashamed of themselves.  I hate that society today is so messed up that they boost these women head up. They make it seem like it’s a good thing to act like a hoe. I mean everyone makes silly mistakes but at some point of time you’re old enough to know right from wrong.

My definition of a hoe is a person who has sexual intercourse with many people and doesn’t care who it is. I had to let everyone know that so they can get a clear understanding what I’m talking about. Social media play a big role into why girls think it’s okay to sleep around with other people’s boyfriends or girlfriends. Many guys give these girls attention because they know these women are easy and they can get anything they want out of them. There are even some memes on social media that make jokes about being a hoe to make it seem like it’s a good thing.

Think about how some of these celebrity or regular everyday women get famous. I’ll give you a few examples Amber Rose, Kim Kardashian, and goal diggers that try to date every million or billionaire. I know some of them may have changed their lives into something positive but their past keeps haunting them. That’s exactly why it’s important to be careful what you do in life. I understand that sometimes you have to make decisions you’re not proud of. Please don’t think doing hoe activities is the only way to reach a high level of success. I’m just not comfortable with how society loves glorifying hoes but don’t acknowledge a woman who has respect for herself and doing something positive. This is why most men try to disrespect women. They love reflecting on all these women on social media that don’t have self-respect for themselves.

Let’s have a discussion

Everything that I mentioned in this post is my opinion. I’m not a person that judge others so don’t take what I said in an offensive way. If you agree with some of the points I made in this post. Let’s have a discussion in the comment section! If you disagree with some things I said feel free to comment also.

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Things to do when you’re sad 😭 

Watch funny videos on YouTube 

If you watch YouTube videos on the regular you probably have some favorite YouTubers of yours that know how to make to laugh. Binge watch their videos. After a couple of videos, you should be laughing your butt off! Trust me it works.

Write out your feelings 

Whether it’s on your social media page, on a piece of paper, or in a blog post writing out your feelings can relieve some emotion. This can be a good outlet. 

Vent to someone 

Talking to someone you trust and willing to listen to your problems is a blessing. It’s not easy to show your vulnerability to someone.  Saying what’s on your mind will help a whole lot. Especially if the person listens without judging you. 

 

 

 

Listening to music 

Putting on a playlist that you love can lighten up your mood. Even if it’s sad songs they are still pouring out your feelings. Music cures everything. Well at least in my opinion it does. 

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Why Long Distance Relationships are Special

Most people can’t handle being in an LDR (long distance relationship). They always feel like they need their partner around 24/7. Don’t get me wrong people in an LDR want the same, but we’re not as clingy. We are strong enough to handle not being physically around our significant other, any temptation that might try to break up our relationship, and the negative opinions that are said about our relationships. Even though, we will love to have our boyfriend or girlfriend around us we are able to remain faithful to them. There is no such thing of not being able to handle a long distance relationship because if you really care or love someone genuinely you won’t even give them a suspicion of questioning your loyalty. I mean don’t get me wrong I know some couples go through situations and if the solution to their problems is breaking up that’s fine. Long distance relationships are built for people who don’t mind taking sacrifices and being patient. Lord knows it’s hard to have patience when you want to see the person you love in person every day. Long distance relationships are special because not too many people can boldly say that they had enough courage to stay in their relationship without distance affecting the way they love their significant other.  Question for my readers: What makes your long distance relationship special? 

 

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