YOU CAUSED MY PAIN! 💔

Every time I try to pull my full effort into loving you

You always find a way to break my heart

You try to love me again when it’s too late

You wonder why I’m so angry

Crying my eyes out

Have trust issues

Everything is because of YOU!

 

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Rejection Can Be A Blessing 😮🙌🏾

I know in your head now you’re thinking how can rejection be a blessing or maybe saying how is that even possible? Well, if you want to find out I’ll explain it to you. Mostly everyone experienced having a crush/liking, someone. We try to build up the courage to approach or text them. That’s when we start thinking of different scenarios like what if the person doesn’t like me back, what if I make myself look annoying/ridiculous, or how do I start-up a conversation with them. These are only a couple of things that run through your mind, but I know it’s plenty of more. From the title of this post, you can see I’m going to talk about the word we fear the most REJECTION. 

In my opinion, I see it as a blessing because it saves you from an unnecessary heartbreak. I don’t know about you, but I think that’s a pretty good reason to accept rejection. I mean I understand that’s not the outcome we would want to experience. I’ll rather have someone honestly reject me than pretend to like me and hurt my feelings. After rejection, it might take you some time to get over it well that depends on how deep you liked the person. Try to keep yourself busy by doing activities you enjoy. I know it’s easier said than done, but you’ll appreciate this piece of advice.

Rejection may seem awful which isn’t always true. For all, you know your crush could have been someone who would lead your life in destruction. Your rejection was a blessing because the person that you liked probably wasn’t the right person for you. There will be someone who comes into your life that will like/love you unconditionally. Don’t try to force a relationship with someone who doesn’t want you. 

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Interracial Relationships

I decided to write about this topic because it plays a big role in society today. Believe it or not, some people are still against interracial relationships which are surprising to most but not all people. I’m actually in an interracial relationship myself. When I would go out with my boyfriend to certain places we get weird stares. I don’t know if it’s because they are shocked to see an African-American woman with a Hispanic man. Or maybe they dislike seeing us together.

There are times when it’s uncomfortable because unwanted attention is on us. In my opinion, I don’t care if someone dates another person outside of their race. You can’t help who you love plus all that matters is if the person treats you with respect and loves you unconditionally.  I think it’s beautiful to see couples happy without being judgmental about who they choose to be with.

It is more common to see interracial couples in big cities like New York, Miami, and Atlanta plus more but y’all get my point. Then you get into a state like mine which is South Carolina.  You don’t see too many interracial couples and if you do it’s a Caucasian woman with a black man or vice versa. Then you will see a Hispanic man with a Caucasian woman. I had Caucasian friends in the past that were told by their parents that they could have black friends. When it came to dating a black person then that will be a problem. That would be so crazy to me. I do not see a difference between dating a black person or being friends with them. I’m not trying to throw racism in here so I don’t need anyone to get offended.

In conclusion, I support interracial dating because it shows how others have courage dating someone outside their race to get a new experience or love they haven’t gotten from anyone else. By me saying this I’m not trying to say I’m against anyone that dates within their race. That is totally fine. I just don’t want anyone to get any misunderstanding. So I want to know what’s y’all opinion on interracial dating by commenting down below.

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Good morningggg!

Good morning beautiful people! How are you? Are you doing great? Yes? That’s lovely to hear. I hope your morning is going well so far. Mine is going well also. I’m emotional from watching sad documentaries though. I’m such a crybaby!! Anyways, enough about me. Tell me about your plans for today. I want to hear about them. I hope everyone has a good day. Keep a smile on your face! Surround yourself with positive energy. If you’re on the other side of the world goodnight.

QOTD: “Lighten up, just enjoy life, smile more, laugh more, and don’t get so worked up about things.” – Kenneth Branagh

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Good morning Happy Monday!!

Good morning everyone how did you sleep last night? I’m hoping you slept well. What did you do over the weekend? My weekend was long now that I think about it. I didn’t do too much though. I want to know your plans for today also. Did y’all like the poem I posted last night? If you haven’t read it here’s the link to it https://reflectionofdes.com/2017/12/10/fear-not-able-write/  . It’s a short little poem. Mostly, writer’s could relate to it. Anyways, have a great day!! If you’re on the other side of the world goodnight.

QOTD: “Let us make our future now, and let us make our dreams tomorrow’s reality.” – Malala Yousafzai

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Good evening loves!

Good morning evening!! I know everyone been waiting to hear from me. I’m finally done with school this semester. I’m happy about that. That’s one thing I don’t have to worry about anymore. More free time for me well kind of lol. Anyways, I’m hoping everyone is doing well. How is your week going? Don’t be afraid to tell me about it. Do you have anything special going on today? I’m eager to hear about it. I want everyone to continue to have a good day!!! If you’re on the other side of the world goodnight.

QOTD: “The best and most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen or even touched – they must be felt with the heart.” Helen Keller

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Good morning Everyone!!

Good morning everyone, it’s been a couple of days since I did a good morning post. So much is going on. I have so many things that need to be done. Ugh, I hate feeling this way because my mind is all over the place. Anyways, how is your day going so far? What’re your plans for this fine Tuesday morning? My plans for today is to get things done that’s on my to-do list. After I finish up everything I will feel relieved. I want everyone to have an awesome day!! If you’re on the other side of world goodnight.

QOTD: “No act of kindness, no matter how small, is ever wasted.” – Aesop

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Okay, I Get It Now

Okay, I get it now

It’s not meant for me to be happy

All the negative energy is taking over

I give up

Nothing works anymore

I’m losing faith

Ugh, I feel defeated

Life wasn’t suppose to be this way

All I want is happiness

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Yesss, it’s Friday!! Good morning Beautiful People

Good morning everyone, thank God it’s Friday right? I hope your morning is going great so far. Everyone should be happy because today is Friday. Your weekend is finally starting. One thing about today though is that the time is going by slow. Maybe it’s just me thinking that. What’re your plans for this weekend? I’m eager to hear about them. I don’t have any type of plans for this weekend so, I guess I will chill around the house. I want everyone to have a good day! If you’re on the other side of the world goodnight.

QOTD: “Inspiration comes from within yourself. One has to be positive. When you’re positive, good things happen.” – Deep Roy

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This Generation I Live In

I live in a generation with relationship goals

everyone making jokes out of serious issues

like anxiety, suicide, bullying, bipolar disorders.. etc.

record a harmful situation instead of helping

want success but don’t want to work hard for it

do stupid things just to go viral

instagram likes determine how cute you are

This is the generation I live in…

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Good evening to Everyone Across the World 🌍

Good evening to everyone across the world 🌍 how is everyone tonight? What are y’all having for dinner? Let me know so I can come over and eat dinner with you lol. I’m so ready for school to finish. It’s been stressing me out!! After I finish this semester I can finally put full focus on my blog. Anyways, I wanted to make a post for everyone so y’all wouldn’t think I forgot about you. I’m hoping you had a good day. Also, I have more new posts coming up soon. Talk to y’all later.

QOTD: “Setting goals is the first step in turning the invisible into the visible.” – Tony Robbins

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Good Afternoon to Everyone Across the World (Important Message Included)

Good afternoon to everyone across the world. Sorry, for the delay in your daily good morning post. Since it’s now the afternoon where I live I started off telling everyone good afternoon. Anyways, I have my college exams next week so this week I have to do a lot of studying. I have to finish this semester strong. With that being said throughout this week the daily good morning post may be a little later than I usually post them. I wanted to give everyone a heads up to anyone who looks forward to the posts. Y’all know I enjoy uplifting you early in the mornings. I’m hoping everyone is having a good day. Remember to surround yourself with positive energy. If you’re on the other side of the world goodnight.

QOTD: “Today or any day that phone may ring and bring good news.” – Ethel Waters

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