The worst feeling in the world is being there for someone and they don’t appreciate it or take you for granted. They never realize how you ignore your own dreams, intuition, and well-being. It’s crazy how you will sacrifice a lot caring for someone. That person only will learn their lesson when you stop being there for them. When you completely disappear out of their life. It’s going to hurt their soul. Even if they try to replace you with someone else. That replacement still can’t complete them like you did. It won’t be the same. You’re one of a kind.
PUSH FORWARD DON’T LOOK BACK
Sometimes disappearing out of someone life is the best lesson. They always come begging for you, so you can “save” them. Keep pushing forward. Going back isn’t going to solve anything. I’m sure you already know that considering the fact you came back various times, and everything repeated itself. Remember that! You are strong enough to move on. Don’t ever think you’re “stuck” in the situation that you are in. There are ways you can get out.
Of course, it will be hard to kick them out of your life because you care about them. It’s okay to feel that way. Don’t feel ashamed about that at all. What is not okay is being taking advantage of. A person will use you for their own selfish intentions or benefits if you allow them to. You deserve someone in your life that appreciates you!!
The best thing to do is to level up. Make it clear to the person you will no longer be there for them. So, what if they get mad or say foul things to you. The only person they need to get mad at is themselves because they didn’t appreciate or value a good person in their life who truly cared about them. Don’t allow yourself to make time for a person like that. They serve no good purpose in your life anyway. Learn from this lesson and remember when someone takes you for granted it’s their loss.