Married Man Message Me on Facebook! (Screen shots Included)

Hey readers, you know I have to spill the tea (tell you the latest gossip). Last night I happen to get on Facebook on my computer. When I logged on I noticed I had a message, so I click on the message icon to see who it was. It was from the married man. My first thought was “why the hell does he keep messaging me?” We don’t have anything to talk about.

Before I finish the story let me give you a little background on him. This guy and I knew each other when we were kids going to summer camp. Back then he used to have a crush on me. He is 2 or 3 years older than me. Right now, I’m 20 and he’s¬†like 22 or 23 years old. He always liked underage girls back then though (such a creep). The girls would usually be like at least 2 or 3 years younger than him. Anyways, the last time we talk was when I was way younger (back in middle school).


After I saw that the man message me I put up a Facebook status saying “IF YOU ARE MARRIED OR IN A RELATIONSHIP AT ALL GET OUT OF MY INBOX! I DON’T WANT YOU!” Yes, the status was about him. I get so tired of him always trying to message me. For one he has a wife. Second, I always ignore his messages anyway. Third, we literally have nothing to talk about. As a married man, he shouldn’t be messaging other women at all on social media. Another thing is I’m not a family friend or had a close relationship with him anyway. We only shared conversation back when I was a kid.

Oh yeah, his wife and sister my Facebook friend also. I’m not going to lie I wanted to tag his wife name in the status and attach the screenshot, so she could see it. Then I told myself not to do it because she probably wouldn’t believe me or make me look like a bad person anyway. I don’t want her man plus maybe she might already know he message other women anyway ūü§∑ūüŹĺ‚Äć‚ôÄÔłŹ.

Have you ever had someone in a relationship who kept messaging you on social media? If so, did you ignore or block them from your page? You can share your thoughts in the comment section.


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A Poem Dedicated to Men from a Woman

I don’t think all of you treat women bad

Don’t assume I have that perspective about you all

Yes, I had my bad experiences with men breaking my heart

Or shall I say “boys”

Some of you do play with females like toys

I’m not writing this to argue

So don’t take this the wrong way

Pay some respect to women

Maybe one of them will turn out to be your wife one day

How do you expect a woman to love you wholeheartedly

If you don’t do the same

Remember don’t cause us pain

Cause if you do your head may hit a window pane


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Letter to my Nosey Neighbors Across the Street

Dear Nosey Neighbors,

Why are you always outside watching people? Go in the house! It annoys me how every time I go outside y’all are staring at me. That makes me feel uncomfortable. Let’s be real, no one wants to be stared at especially every time they leave out of the house. Just like you’re watching me. I know there is someone else watching you. Some days I wish it would thunderstorm outside so you won’t come out the house.

Sometimes that doesn’t even stop you from watching everyone in the neighborhood. Another thing I dislike is when you have company over your house. I mean it’s your house and you can do whatever you want but do you have to talk your company in the front yard on the porch. They look suspicious and I don’t like it. When I come outside they stare just as bad as you do. It’s a shame I have to go through this every day.



Annoyed Neighbor

Do any of my readers have nosey neighbors they want to get rid of? 

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Use Positive Words to Describe Yourself

I decided to do an acrostic poem with my full name. You probably did one of these poems in elementary school. I chose positive words that described me. Remember everyone it’s always good to think positive about yourself. For anyone that reads this post, you should try this acrostic poem also. See what positive words that describe you.¬†




















Do this poem in the comment section using your first name. I enjoyed doing this poem. It’s something fun to do on your spare time. Also, it a good activity to boost up your confidence because you’re finding positive words to describe yourself. You can try other themes with this poem too.

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Why I’m Glad I Discovered That I Have Anxiety

It all started back in middle school when I was in the 8th grade. I noticed a change in myself. I knew the feeling of depression but had no idea what anxiety was then. Reflecting back I realized I showed signs of anxiety. This is why I always felt uncomfortable.

There were times when I tried to explain to my mom how uncomfortable I felt in the school classrooms. She thought I was talking nonsense. I wish she would’ve taken me more seriously back then. Maybe I would’ve found out earlier that I had anxiety. Sometimes she still acts funny when I talk about what I go through with anxiety.

Later on, when I started blogging that’s when I discovered what anxiety was all about. Most people in the blogging world suffer from anxiety and depression. I could relate to them because they been through the same experiences as me. There was a sense of relief to know everything I experience was real and I wasn’t crazy.

As a matter of fact, there are nights that I can’t go to bed without my thoughts running me crazy! Sometimes I wake up feeling scared with my heart beating fast. This is some signs of anxiety. I’m glad that I discovered that I have anxiety because I would still be confused to why “weird” things happen or bother me. Also, because it solved unanswered questions. I’m glad to know there are other people out here that are just like me. I don’t feel so alone anymore talking about anxiety.

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Memorial Day Weekend

Hey, bloggers, it’s Memorial Day weekend. If you’re not familiar with the holiday Memorial day it’s a day on which those who died in active military service are remembered, traditionally observed on May 30 but now officially observed on the last Monday in May (Google definition). Are y’all having any family cookouts? In the U.S everyone has family cookouts during this weekend. This weekend I will be having one. I’m praying for everyone to be safe.

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Foods I Dislike (Des Blog-a-thon) #38

 1. Mushrooms: I will not eat any type of food with mushrooms in them. 





2. Coleslaw: Yuck! That’s all I have to say about.¬†






3. Potato Salad: ¬†Every time when I see potato salad it’s at family cookouts. If you’re Southern and live in the USA we call it “Tatter Salad” lol. As southerners, we always have a funny way of saying some words.¬†



4. Cherries: I can eat cherry flavored candy like Jolly Ranchers. I can’t eat real cherries though. They always didn’t taste right to me.¬†







5. Lemon Peppered Wings: Honestly, I don’t see why people think these wings are so good. The flavor is yucky!! I’ll rather have Buffalo¬†wings.¬†


6. Raisins: Ever since I was a kid I couldn’t stand eating raisins. I never got used to the taste. They look like little bugs.




I’m not a picky eater but a good bit of foods I won’t eat. Do you like any of the foods that I dislike? What are foods that you dislike?¬†



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