Every Person You Meet Doesn’t Want to Hurt You

Have you ever had an experience where you messed up a good situation with someone? This person put their whole heart into you, showed how much they cared, and even proved to you that they were genuine. They were down with you through whatever. Too bad everything didn’t work out the way it was supposed to.

You were too blinded by your pain from the past to appreciate the real love in front of you. All the hurt you carried from your past relationship or situation got you thinking anyone that enters your life has bad intentions for you. Avoiding yourself from getting played but everything you’re thinking is all in your head. Yes, you’ve been hurt, develop trust issues, insecure, and feeling a little bitter. Give that person that is trying to do right by you a chance. Especially if they didn’t do anything to abuse your trust in them.

Holding on to the pain from the past will ruin your chance at happiness if you haven’t done that already. What if there is a person out there that truly cares about how you feel. What if they see your value and worth? Not everyone is out here to hurt you. I’m not telling you to open up so easily to every person you meet still be careful with that. All I’m saying is don’t put yourself in a situation where you have someone who is good for you then push them away for the wrong reasons.

Yes, we make our mistakes and realize certain things when it’s too late. Just make sure you learn from those mistakes. If you still feel like you are not fully healed from what you been through, then take more time to yourself. You may can’t help who may come into your life while you’re in the healing process. One thing you can do though is appreciate someone who cares for you. Everyone is not out to hurt you. Stay strong, trust your intuition, and forgive.

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Words Do Hurt People Feelings

It’s time to talk about how much words do hurt people. I know you remember that saying “sticks and stones may break my bones but words don’t hurt.” This saying is not true at all. Honestly, words hurt worse than getting hurt physically. It hits you in a deep kind of way. The type of pain that never goes away. It really hits you to the core.

Especially if you hear those hurtful words from someone that you are close with. Those people know the wrong words to say at the wrong time. I feel like if a person says something that makes you upset in an emotional way. Then you should keep your distance away from there. Most of the time they say comments to hurt your feelings because that’s their intentions anyway. They want to see you upset or have a downfall. Also, it’s best to keep your distance if you express to them that what they say hurts you and they ignore what you told them.

Not everyone takes what a person says lightly. That’s why you should watch what you say to people. Even if a person doesn’t show you they feel some type of way about certain things you might’ve said to them. You can still feel a weird vibe between the two of you if you are around them or whenever you communicate with them. You never know what a person is going through. What you say to them might trigger them to spazz out or even worse commit suicide or at least try to. Not everyone is mentally stable to handle certain things. If you have sense enough to know that what you may say to a person won’t be nice. Then you should keep it to yourself. It’s nothing wrong with speaking your mind. You just need to learn how to speak your mind in a respectful way.

Share your opinion on how words hurt people feelings. Do you consider the person sensitive? If you had an experience with someone hurting your feelings by what they said to you share your story. That’s if you don’t mind telling it.

Click here to listen to my podcast episode “Words Do Hurt.” I go into even more details on how words hurt a person feelings.

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I HATE YOU

I hate you…

Harsh to say but I mean it

I hate how much you hurt me

I hate how I put YOU before myself

I hate you for making me feel insecure

I hate you for taking advantage of my loyalty

I hate how much you never paid attention to the little things

I hate how you pretend to care about me

I hate how much I accepted all the lies, fake love, and games you played

I hate how angry you make me feel

I hate the nights I cried over you

I hate you so much!

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You Snatched My Soul (Des Blog-a-thon) #29

When you told me you never loved me

You snatched my soul

When you decided to with her and not me

You snatched my soul

When  you called me a hoe, bitch, and liar

You snatched my soul

Even after all of that I still loved you

                Why am I such a fool?

Can’t you see how you snatched my soul

And torn it apart…

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Tired

I just need a peace of mind. I’m tired of being unhappy. I feel like my young life has been wasted. Is being happy too much to ask for? Why do I have to pretend that I’m happy instead of faking it. I got so much pressure on me. My life just gets worse. People might think my problems aren’t that serious but if you were in my shoes then you’ll feel the weight of depression. I’ll never understand what God purpose is for me. I just need to get away from everything. I don’t want to be around judgement, negative energy, or stress. 

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The One I Used to Love

I remember when we first met

Seeing calls or texts from you lit up my world

Everything felt like a fairy tale I didn’t want to end

But then I noticed a change

I got less calls and limited texts from you

You turned into someone I didn’t recognize

By being the loyal person that I am

I stayed talking to you and took all the disrespect

You’ll never know how much you hurt me so deeply

It was a pain that left my heart shattered

I thought you would come comfort me

But when you heard my cries you act like you didn’t care

So to the one I used to love why did you start showing affection when I fell out of love?

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