Every Person You Meet Doesn’t Want to Hurt You

Have you ever had an experience where you messed up a good situation with someone? This person put their whole heart into you, showed how much they cared, and even proved to you that they were genuine. They were down with you through whatever. Too bad everything didn’t work out the way it was supposed to.

You were too blinded by your pain from the past to appreciate the real love in front of you. All the hurt you carried from your past relationship or situation got you thinking anyone that enters your life has bad intentions for you. Avoiding yourself from getting played but everything you’re thinking is all in your head. Yes, you’ve been hurt, develop trust issues, insecure, and feeling a little bitter. Give that person that is trying to do right by you a chance. Especially if they didn’t do anything to abuse your trust in them.

Holding on to the pain from the past will ruin your chance at happiness if you haven’t done that already. What if there is a person out there that truly cares about how you feel. What if they see your value and worth? Not everyone is out here to hurt you. I’m not telling you to open up so easily to every person you meet still be careful with that. All I’m saying is don’t put yourself in a situation where you have someone who is good for you then push them away for the wrong reasons.

Yes, we make our mistakes and realize certain things when it’s too late. Just make sure you learn from those mistakes. If you still feel like you are not fully healed from what you been through, then take more time to yourself. You may can’t help who may come into your life while you’re in the healing process. One thing you can do though is appreciate someone who cares for you. Everyone is not out to hurt you. Stay strong, trust your intuition, and forgive.

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Life Changes Everything Around Us

There is always one thing that ruins your whole mood. It’s crazy how one little thing can change everything! Especially when your life is going so well. It’s like that saying “it’s too good to be true.” Anyways, it doesn’t take much for certain things to ruin your mood.

For example, you could’ve got good news about getting a job promotion. You’re excited to tell your close family, friends, and your significant other. The first person you call about the news is your significant other. Before you can tell the news, your boyfriend or girlfriend wants to break up with you. Your feelings are crushed. Your whole mood is ruined. You see how quick everything can change your mood?

Life has a funny way of changing like that. Most of the time we are confused to why bad things are happening. You start to feel like bad luck follows you. That’s not the case though. The bad events that happen in your life is to teach you lessons. Learning from those lessons helps you become wiser. Change is not always a bad thing. Accept changes that come into your life.

Your mood affects everything around you. You’ll notice it in the way you start physically doing things. Also, the way you do things mentally. Don’t let one event in your life take control. Moods are only temporary. Keep that in mind. So, tell me how has one event in your life change your mood or mindset? Let’s get this discussion going in the comment section.

 

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