Too Many Sex Partners

Sex is a feeling that many people crave. In some situations, it can turn into an addiction. Nowadays sex is no “big deal” to most people. The real problem comes into play when a person starts having too many sexual partners. Hey, I’m not trying to bash anyone in this article so calm down. I just want to make certain individuals aware of what they’re doing.

First of all, when you want to get yourself sexually involved with someone make sure you know what you’re doing. Sex is nothing to play around with. You share bodily fluids with someone else, feelings are involved (sometimes), STDS, and even pregnancies. Do you fully evaluate the person you want to have sex with? Maybe what you are feeling towards that person is only temporary. Are there times when you think to yourself the effects that sex may cause on you? Sure you may see it as something fun to do at the moment. But think about it this way is the sex worth giving a piece of yourself to the other person. Show a little respect towards yourself because not everybody deserves to get an intimate taste of you. 

Especially if you have a circle of people you like to have sex with. How many sex partners is enough? Look, it’s nothing wrong with having some fun. Don’t think I’m trying to preach to you or think I am some full ball of innocence because that’s not the intention of this article. You’re not going to find your emotional fulfillment in sex. No matter how many people you mess around with. Sex can cause so much confusion. Don’t let yourself get caught up in the hype. Just be careful about having too many partners you want to sleep with.

What’s your thoughts on someone that has too many sex partners? Feel free to express your opinion.

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They Say…

Love yourself they say

But how?

Be confident they say

Why?

Stay positive they say

Why should I?

Believe in yourself they say

How?

Fight for what you believe in they say

Okay?

Work towards your goals

I’m trying…

Does what “they say” matter?

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Is Cheating Acceptable? (Podcast Episode Included)

Nowadays people make it seem like cheating is normal. That’s not cool at all. What happened to taking relationships seriously? Nobody wants to have real love. They want to be in relationships just to say they have a companion. It’s hard to find someone who practices old school love.

Most people think it’s fun and okay to have someone on the side whether it’s a male or female. They don’t care at all. Having the best of both worlds is only on their mind.

Listen to my podcast episode to hear more about what I have to say about cheating being acceptable.

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Start Living for Yourself

There is a point in your life when you must start living for yourself. When I say start living for yourself I mean making yourself happy and not letting anyone or anything get in the way of your happiness.

You have to break old bad habits. Explore new opportunities or hobbies. Figuring out how to make yourself happy first. Your opinion about yourself matters the most. Remember you are your biggest critic.

That’s why you need to make the effort to make yourself happy. Happiness is the key to living a comfortable life. Opening up that gate of happiness will give you a lifetime full of satisfaction. You won’t have many regrets, unlike the person who didn’t take the risk of finding their true happiness.

Another thing you will start noticing is your self-worth or value. That’s when you know you don’t deserve to deal with BS. There will be something inside you that puts you on a high level of confidence.

Just remember it’s nothing wrong with being selfish about your wants and needs. Even if it’s something out of the ordinary it shouldn’t stop you from doing it. Start living for yourself. Don’t worry about pleasing everyone else. You are in control of your own life.

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Fly on the Wall by Trista Russell Book Review

This book review contains some foul language. Read at your own risk.

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Where can I buy this book?

ThriftBooks: $3.79 USD

Amazon: $6.99 USD & $4.99 USD (Kindle version)

Synopsis

Paige is a 32-year-old English teacher who develops an intimate relationship with her student Theodore Lakewood. Theodore aka Theo is a senior at West Dade Senior High and the star basketball player at the school. Everything is going well between the two until their secret gets spread around.

The Review Begins…

Fly on the wall has comedic, sexual, and drama-filled scenes throughout the book. The combination of the three makes the book very entertaining. When you read the first page of the book it immediately draws you into the book. There weren’t any dull moments in the book. That’s exactly why I love reading urban fiction books they always keep you on your toes. I like how the author included funny parts from “The Fly” in the story. Even though I’m against teachers and students having relationships with each other intimately. This novel makes you think that what if this is how situations like that play out in real life. One random thing I want to mention is how there was a scene in the book that made me realize that the song “Rock the Boat” by Aaliyah is a sexual song. I was in shock lol. Anyways, let me get back on track with this book review.

Towards the end of the book things got pretty intense. The truth really starts to unravel. There’s a unexpected twist that will have to in shock.

Characters

Honestly, I didn’t have any favorite characters in this novel. It’s not that I didn’t like any of the characters. I just didn’t connect to any of them personally. Every character in the novel had unique personalities. They remind me of every day you are around all the time.

Paige: A very intelligent woman. The only thing that annoys me about her is the decisions she makes when it comes to the relationships she’s in or starts to develop. Especially when she fools around with her ex-husband Craig. After all that bull he put her through there are times she still lets him get his way. I understand how she still loves him in a way but he should be the last person she should want to mess around with. She shouldn’t want his dirty dick 🤮. Another thing I want to mention is the fact that she isn’t as careful as she wants to be when messing around with Theo. He had her head in the clouds. One thing I can admit is that at least Theo was 18 though so he’s legal.

Theo: Man Theo was definitely mature for his age. I can see why Paige end up attracted to him. He can sweep a girl off their feet. He’s good at reading women too. That’s sexy and dangerous at the same time to me lol. I must admit he’s a smart kid. Paige got him pussy whip.

Eva Lakewood: She’s Theo mother. You can tell how supportive she is as a mother when it comes to his future with basketball. One thing I am surprise about is how you didn’t realize what was going on with Paige and Theo. Yes, of course she worked a lot. Usually parents still dig deep for clues when strange things are going on with their children. I guess she wasn’t focus enough to put two and two together as things were going on.

The Fly: Including the fly in pieces of the book was funny. Basically the fly is the one who tells the “real” story of what happen between Paige and Theo. Having the fly in the story is like watching a movie then it pauses so the narrator can come in and give you some background on what’s really going on. The fly brought some entertainment to the novel too.

Toni: She’s Paige best friend. I love how she keeps it real with Paige. Especially when it comes to stuff about Craig. There are times when I believe she can come off as a little judgmental. I don’t care for her husband Marcus because he was overly obsessed with the swinger situation. Marcus acts like he doesn’t respect her as his wife either. I don’t blame Toni for being mad at him about the situation that happen with Tara and Jamal.

Craig: I don’t have any respect for him. He’s so arrogant too. This man is the attractive asshole that you wish you would’ve never had feelings for. It’s funny how his feelings get hurt when his ego is bruised.

Trese: This little ghetto heffa played herself when it came to being involved with Theo. Too bad Theo wasn’t a fool for her. In a way, I feel bad for her because of the environment she grew up in which I believe influences her decisions on the things that she does. She better be glad Theo didn’t knock her upside her head cause she was outta pocket (disrespectful) sometimes.

Doran: Now I’m not going to tell the shocking truth about this man because that would be spoiling the story. For a minute he had me fooled. This man is something else. All I’m going to say is he’s someone that you probably shouldn’t trust.

Will: He’s Theo best friend. I’m surprise he didn’t figure out quickly what was going on between Theo and Paige. Even though he was one of the main characters in the book. He showed up every now and then.

Even though it took me foreverrrr to finish this book. I really enjoyed it. This novel deserves 5/5 stars. The author put a lot of effort into this story to make it good!! I will be reading more of Trista Russell books.

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Key to my Heart 💞

Find the key to my heart

That’s where it will start

When we come together as one

My heart will be released from the pain

This is not the time to play any games

I know you’re not like the rest of those lames

You showed me what’s real

That’s why I trust you with the key to my heart

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Fake Love

Fake Love

There is no trust

All I can do is look at you in disgust

I thought our bond was stronger

That’s what I get for giving you a benefit of the doubt

Now it’s no reason for me to pout

Or even show out

Fake love

That’s all you gave me

It’s cool though

Karma will hit you at the front door

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Vulnerability

Making eye contact makes me vulnerable

You see right through me

Seeing my past

Now my heart is racing fast

Hoping your stare doesn’t last

Look away

My soul is being invaded

This is not what I anticipated

Why does this feel so complex?

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Timing

Maybe the timing wasn’t right

Waiting

And

Waiting

Patiently

Stuck between moving forward or staying in the moment

Sinking into a whirlpool of zoning into distractions

Trying to figure out different actions

To take

Going with the flow isn’t working anymore

Maybe I should believe the lore

That’s inside my head

Waiting

and

Waiting

Maybe the timing wasn’t right

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On My Mind is YOU!

I can’t stop thinking about you

Losing sleep cause you’re on my mind

While I’m thinking about you

You’re thinking about her

Being a fool for her made you blind

Failing to read between the lines

With me…

The signs were there

Ignoring me wasn’t fair

Silently saying a secret prayer

To make you open your eyes

To the one that will be there

For you…

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