Things to do when you’re sad ūüė≠¬†

Watch funny videos on YouTube 

If you watch YouTube videos on the regular you probably have some favorite YouTubers of yours that know how to make to laugh. Binge watch their videos. After a couple of videos, you should be laughing your butt off! Trust me it works.

Write out your feelings 

Whether it’s on your social media page, on a piece of paper, or in a blog post writing out your feelings can relieve some emotion. This can be a good outlet. 

Vent to someone 

Talking to someone you trust and willing to listen to your problems is a blessing. It’s not easy to show your vulnerability to someone.  Saying what’s on your mind will help a whole lot. Especially if the person listens without judging you. 




Listening to music 

Putting on a playlist that you love can lighten up your mood. Even if it’s sad songs they are still pouring out your feelings. Music cures everything. Well at least in my opinion it does. 

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Hello, bloggers, I made a youtube video on why I love blogging and I think some of you will like it. I’m going to post the video down below. Feel free to comment, like, and reblog this post. I will appreciate all the love that everyone gives me. Try checking out my other Youtube videos and see if you like them. Don’t forget to subscribe to my channel if you want to see more videos.

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The Blue Sky Tag

Hello, bloggers, ¬†I received¬†my first tag from another fellow blogger Victor. I’m excited to do my first tag. Victor gave me really good questions to answer so I’m eager about that also. Thanks again Victor for tagging me. EVERYONE GO CHECK OUT HIS BLOG¬†


  1. Give 11 questions
  2. Tag 11 people
  3. Answer the 11 questions given to you

Answers to Victor Questions

  1. Do people find you hilarious? Be honest. Yeah sometimes I have my moments where I can make people laugh, but I’m no comedian.
  2. Where do you see your work in the next five years? At it highest level of success
  3. What is your current occupation? Currently, I’m a college student. I don’t work now.
  4. What do you hate in a person? Someone that has a smart mouth and tries to be rude every chance they get.
  5. Have you ever felt like and thought you were/are the only person on earth? No, not really
  6. To you, what does it mean to live an ideal life? Living happily without life struggles 
  7. Define kindness in your own words. Kindness is when you genuinely do something for someone without no hesitation because they deserved it. Even if they don’t at least you cared anyway.¬†
  8. Do you have any addiction? If yes, what is it? Yes, I have an addiction to eating Hawaiian bread lol. I love the sweet taste it has to it!
  9. Do you have any hidden talent? I have no idea I’m still looking for it.
  10. If you were another person, do you think you’d love the real you? Yes to a certain extent even though I have my crazy moments.
  11. What do you find attractive in a person? It has to be their appearance, personality, future goals, and loyalty.

Bloggers I Tag…

  1. LoveKatelynnrose
  2. Kristina Steiner
  3. abeautifulintellect77
  4. Kirti
  5. McApple
  6. idiotviews
  7. Julie Sheppard aka Reiko Chinen
  8. Elsie L.M.C
  9. Joseyphina
  10. Phayteas Pulse
  11. MissBBlogzThingz

Questions for the people I tagged

  1. What’s the first thing you do when you wake up in the morning?
  2. Do you believe there are still good people in this world?
  3. What’s your favorite ice cream?
  4. What will be your next vacation?
  5. Have you ever done something you regret?
  6. What’s your favorite tv show?
  7. What’s the last dream you had?
  8. Do you believe in karma?
  9. What’s one memory from your childhood you won’t forget?
  10. Have you ever had a bad experience with someone on WordPress?
  11. Did you enjoy my questions?


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Self Consious 

Hoping no one brings up the features you despise the most about yourself 

Not feeling attractive cause everyone else looks “better”

Looking in the mirror feeling disgusted 

Wishing you didn’t see so many flaws in yourself 

There goes that echo in your head “why me?”

Then comes the frustration and anger

That’s the effects of being self conscious…


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I’m a Youtuber Now (:

First, before I start going deep into my post please go watch, comment, and like my Youtube videos. Don’t forget to subscribe if you want to see more of my videos. Here’s the link to my Youtube channel¬†

I’m excited to tell my readers that I’M A YOUTUBER NOW!! I always wanted to be a YouTuber¬†since a few years ago when I first started watching my favorite Youtuber LaToyaForever. She inspired me to start my Youtube journey. One thing I told myself before I started doing Youtube videos that I want a decent camera with good quality. A few years went by for me waiting to get the camera that I wanted. So, recently I was blessed to go out and buy me the camera that I wanted. I was so happy because I knew it was time for me to start doing what I dream of. I have noticed that some of the bloggers I follow already have a Youtube channel or just started one. It looks like we all are going through this journey together. Remember I just started my channel so I’ll be making a few changes soon. Also, my videos will get better over time. Thanks for reading!¬†

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I Pour Out My Real Feelings 

I have always been a person that wasn’t ashamed to express how I feel. It’s just hard to find someone who understands complex thoughts. That part frustrates me completely. No one can ever make me feel bad for being myself. Growing up I already knew how to be my own individual instead of following what the other kids are doing. If you get to know me I have a dope personality. I’ll probably be the silliest, coolest, and understanding person you can meet. Sorry to brag about myself, I just wanted to get this off my chest. Anything you read on my blog connects to me like my personality, thoughts, and feelings. I like to pour my real feelings out so I can connect and relate to my readers. Thank you to everyone that takes the time to read my blog posts. It makes me feel confident, special, and happy because I put a lot of effort into my writing content for my blog. I don’t want to make this post too long. I hope everyone is enjoying their day!!

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It Ain’t Right¬†

People don’t understand my mental ain’t right¬†

I’ll be quick to spazz out if I don’t get myself together

This mood creeps up on me 

I try not to show the crazy side of me 

I have to distance myself before I cause harm

I don’t if it’s anxiety or depression¬†

Man all I need is time to myself 

Y’all won’t understand unless you been through this¬†

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Can you connect to my soul? 

I love those late nights laying in bed in the dark

Listening to music that expresses my soul

Lying there with futuristic thoughts

Needing somebody to connect to me on a deep level

Knowing the vibe will be strong

Let our souls connect into one

I want you to breathe and feel every inch of me

Are you the one that will connect to my soul?

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Why Long Distance Relationships are Special

Most people can’t handle being in an LDR (long distance relationship). They always feel like they need their partner around 24/7. Don’t get me wrong people in an LDR want the same, but we’re not as clingy. We are strong enough to handle not being physically around our significant other, any temptation that might try to break up our relationship, and the negative opinions that are said about our relationships. Even though, we will love to have our boyfriend or girlfriend around us we are able to remain faithful to them. There is no such thing of not being able to handle a long distance relationship because if you really care or love someone genuinely you won’t even give them a suspicion of questioning your loyalty. I mean don’t get me wrong I know some couples go through situations and if the solution to their problems¬†is breaking up that’s fine. Long distance relationships are built for people who don’t mind taking sacrifices and being patient. Lord knows it’s hard to have patience when you want to see the person you love in person every day. Long distance relationships are special because not too many people can boldly say that they had enough courage to stay in their relationship without distance affecting the way they love their significant¬†other. ¬†Question for my readers: What makes your long distance relationship special?¬†


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Why it’s Good to Read¬†

When you’re younger you always probably hear your school teacher or any older adult tell you it’s good for you to read. Believe it or not, they are actually right. Reading enhances your mind, helps you learn new vocabulary, and helps your creativity. Reading is very relaxing. There are plenty of books that are full of stories that can relate to every individual in this world. Well, that’s my opinion. I love the way reading can take you from reality and enters you into a character’s world. If you’re a book lover then you understand what I mean in that last sentence. Even though there are people who still don’t like reading. I believe if they find one good book that catches their interest it will lead them to be a more frequent reader. Reading is essential to our daily lives. We read everything on social media right? So, why can’t we start reading on the regular? You can learn a whole lot from the books that you read. Go out and find you a good book to read! You’ll appreciate it in the long run.¬†Question for my readers: Why do you think reading is good for you?

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