Some People Kills Me With Their Negative Comments

First of all, I can’t stand for a person to always say slick comments when you tell them about your situation. When it comes to them telling you their problems they expect you to not say anything negative. This irks my nerves. I know I’m not the only person that goes through this. This is the main reason I stop talking to certain people because I don’t like hearing their negative comments. Having their bad energy around me isn’t helping anything.

That’s the problem with people now they are quick to judge your lifestyle but don’t take the time to listen and view the situation from your point of view. It’s time to leave those people behind. Don’t have any regret about it. I’ll be a shoulder to lean on if you feel like you can’t vent or talk to anyone else. I give no judgment towards anyone. Readers, if you have people in your life that always want to throw negativity in your situation just stop talking to them. It doesn’t matter who they are. If they can’t support you in a positive way then forget about them.

In conclusion, be happy with everything that makes you feel comfortable. I can’t stress that enough. Sometimes you have to show people who their negative comments won’t bring you down and stop you from being yourself. Like the old saying “misery loves company.” Don’t let that misery suck you in.

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I Love Pink Outfit

I Love Pink Outfit


Nude heeled sandals

Pink glasses

Lime Crime lipstick

NYX makeup

Nail treatment
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Dedication to the People That’s Taking me for Granted 

You’ll regret not being there when I needed you. I put all my effort into helping each and every one of you out but rarely got anything in return. Now you’re surprised that we don’t talk anymore. Oh well, I’m moving on with my life. I always said when I reach my highest level of success I would share the luxuries with you. Well, that changed cause I realized none of you cared about me the way you should. Yes, I changed because I wanted to become a better person. My eyes opened up to the no good people who I had hanging around for too long. If you’re reading this and it struck your nerve or conscience then you maybe you’re one of those toxic people in my life. I’m not wasting my time and energy on any of you anymore.

– Dedicated to the people who are taking me for granted

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I always imagine myself alone

I’m always happier alone

Every person I am with always breaks my heart

I have no more room for pain

Sometimes I wish I could disappear

There will be no traces to find me

No one wants to treat me right

There’s no point in wasting my time

Maybe I won’t get that dream wedding

Or the family I want

I’ll be alone and happy with it…

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Letter to my Nosey Neighbors Across the Street

Dear Nosey Neighbors,

Why are you always outside watching people? Go in the house! It annoys me how every time I go outside y’all are staring at me. That makes me feel uncomfortable. Let’s be real, no one wants to be stared at especially every time they leave out of the house. Just like you’re watching me. I know there is someone else watching you. Some days I wish it would thunderstorm outside so you won’t come out the house.

Sometimes that doesn’t even stop you from watching everyone in the neighborhood. Another thing I dislike is when you have company over your house. I mean it’s your house and you can do whatever you want but do you have to talk your company in the front yard on the porch. They look suspicious and I don’t like it. When I come outside they stare just as bad as you do. It’s a shame I have to go through this every day.



Annoyed Neighbor

Do any of my readers have nosey neighbors they want to get rid of? 

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Would you wear it?

Would you wear it?


Destructed jeans

Yellow gold earrings


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Use Positive Words to Describe Yourself

I decided to do an acrostic poem with my full name. You probably did one of these poems in elementary school. I chose positive words that described me. Remember everyone it’s always good to think positive about yourself. For anyone that reads this post, you should try this acrostic poem also. See what positive words that describe you. 




















Do this poem in the comment section using your first name. I enjoyed doing this poem. It’s something fun to do on your spare time. Also, it a good activity to boost up your confidence because you’re finding positive words to describe yourself. You can try other themes with this poem too.

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Why I’m Glad I Discovered That I Have Anxiety

It all started back in middle school when I was in the 8th grade. I noticed a change in myself. I knew the feeling of depression but had no idea what anxiety was then. Reflecting back I realized I showed signs of anxiety. This is why I always felt uncomfortable.

There were times when I tried to explain to my mom how uncomfortable I felt in the school classrooms. She thought I was talking nonsense. I wish she would’ve taken me more seriously back then. Maybe I would’ve found out earlier that I had anxiety. Sometimes she still acts funny when I talk about what I go through with anxiety.

Later on, when I started blogging that’s when I discovered what anxiety was all about. Most people in the blogging world suffer from anxiety and depression. I could relate to them because they been through the same experiences as me. There was a sense of relief to know everything I experience was real and I wasn’t crazy.

As a matter of fact, there are nights that I can’t go to bed without my thoughts running me crazy! Sometimes I wake up feeling scared with my heart beating fast. This is some signs of anxiety. I’m glad that I discovered that I have anxiety because I would still be confused to why “weird” things happen or bother me. Also, because it solved unanswered questions. I’m glad to know there are other people out here that are just like me. I don’t feel so alone anymore talking about anxiety.

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