Miss the Attention not You

Sometimes I wanna go back because that’s what I’m used to

But I don’t miss the hurt or pain

The situation is convenient

Maybe I’m comfortable with convenience over happiness

Or I just miss the attention

I would be lying if I said I didn’t

The attention is only what I need

You can leave but the attention can stay

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4 Ways to Make Yourself Happy

We all want to find new ways to make ourselves happy. Sometimes we are looking for a healthy change or a better lifestyle. Either way, you deserve to live a happy life. I’ll give you a few ways you can make yourself happy.

1. Think positive thoughts: It’s always good to think positive about yourself. Tell yourself every morning that you’re beautiful, intelligent, and strong. Saying that every day can make a difference. Your opinion about yourself is more important than you think. Get into the routine of filling your head with positive thoughts about yourself.

2. Do something you enjoy: Of course, this is obvious advice. Finding something you enjoy doing is easy most times. It could be activities like singing, playing video games, writing. If you haven’t found something you enjoy. Start exploring activities you never tried before. You’ll be amazed by the new hobbies you will start to develop.

3. Take yourself on a date: Treating yourself out is necessary. If you work hard for your money. Why not spend some money on yourself.  After all your bills are paid of course. It’s nothing wrong with making yourself feel good so there’s no need to make yourself feel guilty about it. You deserve it!

4. Let Go of Negativity: Whether you’re around negative drama, friends, or energy there’s a point in your life when you need to get rid of it. Negativity will suck you dry! Releasing it out your life will bring much needed happiness for yourself. Remember that your happiness matter. Negativity serves no purpose in your life.

If you haven’t practice ways to make yourself happy then start now! It’s never too late to fulfill your own needs and wants. Go out and create a life that makes you happy. What are some things you do to keep yourself happy?

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Overthinking 🤯

Sometimes I get caught up in overthinking

That’s my bad

Those thoughts drive me mad

Feeling like a lunatic

In my own head

It possesses me like an entity

Creeps in where it’s unwanted

Encourages negative behavior

Thoughts got me trapped like I’m locked away in a chamber

No one can come in and be my savior

Overthinking

You get the best of me

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Networking on Social Media

Networking on social media isn’t as hard as some people may think it is. Honestly, it’s the quickest way to meet a huge amount of individuals all across the world. If you are comfortable with following random people on social media that share the same interest as you. Then go for it!

One thing you do may want to do is create an eye-catching bio on your profile. I’ll give you a few examples. Let’s say you’re an author, youtuber, and foodie. You can set up your bio like this…

Author of (enter book title here) | Youtuber (insert camera emoji) | Foodie (insert random food) you can add a link to your bio so people can check out your book or YouTube channel. If you want to put more than one link in your bio then you should try using the website linktr.ee. You may have seen some of your favorite influencers have the link on their profile. The website allows you to customize links.

View the picture below to see an example.

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Here’s an example of how I set up my bio on Twitter and Instagram.

Sometimes people search up different occupation names to find people that are in their field of work. Simply because they want to connect with more people like themselves. On social media, most of the time I search up the word “blogger” to find other bloggers like myself. When the results pop up I look through people usernames and click on profiles to follow some of the people I may find interesting.

When you start following people that you want to network with try to interact with them. For example, you see them post something new on their profile like and comment on it. You don’t have to be all extra with your comment and be a butt kisser lol. Just simply share your natural thoughts and give a nice compliment. The main goal is to make them your acquaintance first.  

The more you socialize with different people the more they will remember you. Sometimes by simply commenting, liking, or messaging someone can lead a person to check out your profile to see what you’re all about. That’s one thing I have noticed when I started interacting with people on social media.

Another thing I want to mention is if the person or people you want to network with have shared some of their content on their profile then you should check it out. Once you check out some of their posts. Try sending them a quick message and tell them how much you enjoy what they are doing. They will probably return the favor back to you. Of course, you may run into some individuals who may never respond to you but at least you did try interacting with them at some point.

The whole point I’m trying to make is that when you start interacting with your followers on social media it makes a difference. Your audience gets bigger, more connections or resources are available to you, and etc… Sometimes popularity can help you out a bit. The more people who know of you the more recognition your brand can receive. Most people love supporting individuals they personally know.

If you have used social media to network with people to share your story in the comment section. Do you think social media is a good way to network with people?

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Hearts Won’t Connect (I’m Changing)

I pretend to love you for so long

After the heartache, I haven’t been the same

Have you noticed?

Our hearts are not connecting

I can feel the distance between us

No affection

No daily thoughts about you

No effort to make plans with you

I feel empty inside

Our hearts will never connect again…

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Destined to Be

Detaching myself away from you

Sorry, I even bothered you

Time is revealing your true intentions

Wait, there’s one thing I can’t forget to mention

I peeped those messages you tried to hide

The disrespect in front of my eyes

When I asked about it you fed me with lies

Did you even care at all?

Or you’ll rather watch me look stupid?

You toyed with my feelings

Wish we never had any dealings

I really thought we had something

That something was nothing

A distance between us was destined from the start

Truth is we were never meant to be

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When You’re Having “One of Those Days”

I don’t know what’s going on today but I’m having “one of those days.” It’s a day where you feel frustrated, irritated, & want to release some stress. I just want to sleep my day away and forget everything. Don’t you hate when you’re not feeling like yourself?

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This is when you have to draw yourself out of the present moment you’re in and figure out what’s really bothering you. Is it everything you been holding in lately, overthinking, or somebody said something to make you feel some type of way? If so, trick your mind into going in relax mode. Tell yourself that how you’re feeling is just temporary and everything is going to be okay. Sometimes that helps me ease some tension. You should try it.

Also, do some activities to release how you’re feeling. You can write out how you feel, workout, or vent to a person you trust. Anything that is a positive outlet to let you express yourself works. Try to not let your frustration ruin your whole day. Of course, it’s hard not to be in a shitty mood because everything seems to be getting to you. Turn the negative into a positive. Just like how I wrote this article to express a little bit about how I was feeling. It made me feel somewhat better.

Even though you may feel like isolating yourself try not to do that for too long. It can cause you to feel a little worse. Like I was saying earlier trick your mind in relax mode to ease some tension. Your mind is a powerful tool.

If you have any more tips on how you stay calm during a bad day share it in the comment section. Your tips or advice could help someone out. When is the last time you had a frustrating day?

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A Troubled Mind

Daydreaming

Second guessing

Hoping it’s a blessing

Not another lesson

Don’t want to go through anymore drama

Or anymore trauma

Here goes the same cycle 

Wanting to withdraw

And curl up in a ball

Now it’s not the time to fall

In the trap of unhappiness

You’ll never know what’s running through my head

Confessions of a troubled mind

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A Taste of Your Lover

Lust in your eyes

Fantasizing about tasting between those thighs

Or how it feels to be inside

Be careful what you feen for

The sweet juices will have you addicted

Having a sweet tooth that will never wear off

Wet dreams

Hearing screams

of pleasure 

Can you handle getting a taste of your lover? 

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Letting Your Past Hinder You

Your past has its way of creeping back into your life when you are trying to move forward or at the tip of going through a transformation. It’s like the devil trying to steal your joy when you are the happiest. Everyone past isn’t always bad but there are some things we want to leave behind. Just for the simple fact that you have grown as a person. You’re leveling up into a better version of yourself.

When you let your past hinder your life that’s when you have a problem on your hands. Maybe you never got some type of closure you needed from a situation. Or there is some guilt that still lingers inside you from what happened. Your mind will give you “what if” thoughts to figure out how you could’ve fixed your past mistakes. All the events will keep replaying in your head. It clogs your mind from living better in the present moment. Think of it as a distraction. 

Unfortunately, we can’t go back in time to change what happened. We do have control into not letting a situation happen again and accept the past for what it is. You can’t keep letting the past eat you up inside. Face those demons so you can move on. The more you let those mistakes hold you back the longer it will take you to feel free again. No more getting upset about it being thrown back up in your face. Once you own up to it then it won’t bother you anymore. Your past gave you experiences that you needed to go through in order for you to learn who you are as a person.

Letting your past hinder you won’t make you happy. Let go of the worries on how it may affect your present or future life. You still have a chance on shaping things out the way you want it to be. Past mistakes are left behind for a reason. So, tell me do you believe that your past have hinder you from certain things in life?


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