Now, this is not your typical sad or angry story towards a man who doesn’t want to be a father. It’s definitely not “I need a father in my life” story neither. I’ll be sharing how I feel about growing up without a father. Ever since I was born my father never tried to help take care of me. So you know my mother end up being a single mom. Growing up I didn’t have a bad childhood living in a single parent household. I can’t recall any moments where I dreamed to have a dad in my life. I do recall one memory that I’ll never forget. 

Ever since I was born my father never tried to help take care of me. So you know my mother end up being a single mom. Growing up I didn’t have a bad childhood living in a single parent household. I can’t recall any moments where I dreamed to have a dad in my life. I do recall one memory that I’ll never forget. There was a time he promised me a birthday party for my 13th birthday. It never happened and that hurt me that day. I remember crying about it. I was shocked because I knew that it wasn’t going to happen but I still believed it. I guess I had a little hope inside of me being so young around that time. Like most fathers that don’t take care of their children, he gave false promises. That flashback was an example of it.

I’m not trying to encourage anyone to go bash their father that never was there for them. You can be successful in life no matter if you lived in a single parent household or with two parents. If you grew up without a father like me one day he’ll regret and suffer for not being there for you like he was supposed to. Don’t carry around that baggage the rest of your life. For some I know it’s hard to not be angry towards your father especially if he was part of your life at a certain time. For me, like I said at the beginning of this post my father wasn’t there for me so basically it’s like he’s a person that never exist in my life. I know who he is and he calls every blue moon.  We don’t have a good father-daughter relationship. My question for everyone is do you have a good relationship with your father? 

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