Have you ever had a friendship that you thought would last forever but it didn’t? If you said yes then you’re not the only one. I know that sometimes we outgrow our old childhood friends because eventually yall mature into two different people who don’t share the same interest anymore. There are two outcomes in situations like this either the people in the friendship go on with their lives and are fine with it or they hold a grudge against one another because maybe something chaotic happened.

Every time I get close to someone they always disappear out of my life. I guess they are called “temporary friends.” This is mostly why I don’t like getting attached to people. I mean I enjoy the fun memories but I just wish that I didn’t have to go through a series of friendships. It’s better to have a solid friendship where I could tell my friend or best friends most things when I need advice or someone to have my back. One thing I will not tolerate is having a deceitful, fake, and sneaky friend or best friend, though. I will not force those type of friends in my life. That is less drama I have to deal with. I just thank God I don’t have to go through any unnecessary drama with friends that have sly motives against me.

Anyways, I believe that if you have a close and sincere friendship with someone always cherish the great moments that both of you experience together. Sometimes it’s hard to find a true friend that cares about you.





10 Replies to “Friendships”

  1. This is so true. Few days ago I was going to do a post on friendship but then I changed my mind because I did not want to get too personal. I have had the same best friend since I was 6 years old and as we got older I feel like I barely even know if I have one again. Now I just do me because I feel like people have choices and communication works both ways. Guess we grew apart.

    1. I can understand why you held back from posting about this topic. I have realized long time friendships like that does have outcomes like this. Also, you’re right when you said communication works both ways.

  2. Good friends are hard to come by, true.What a great experience when we can find friends who love us just as we are πŸ™‚ Great post !! Thanks for Sharing!! πŸ™‚

    1. Yes indeed it’s best to enjoy the experience while you can. You’re welcome 😁

  3. Dealing with people can be destructive and beautiful. I guess we just shouldn’t base our lives on friends. We are our own people and we should be surrounded with people that make our lives better, not worse.

  4. I can totally relate . Me and my best friend are no longer friends and that’s over 10 years of friendship . I’m learning to deal with it and just let it go. Sometimes we do outgrow people and you can’t force anyone to be a better friend . Some people just don’t know when they are doing wrong. Gotta let it go and move on. Give space for new friendships πŸ™‚

    1. That’s exactly right. Some people don’t stay in our life for a reason. The best way to get over it is to move on with our lives.

  5. It’s amazingly written. Reminded me of someone who used up every bit of me, and even while leaving, stabbed me with all her might.
    True friends are sincerely hard to get. Even if you believe you’ve got “The One”, they don’t take much time in showing their true self.

  6. Awesome post. I,too had a crew of friends during high school yet turned out to be the total opposite of whom I am. They were actually mean girls. As I’ve gotten older I have about two close girlfriends that’s it. There is so much truth in jealousy and being deceitful and when you have a good heart, it can hurt. But don’t ever change. Remain loving and focused on the good in life. I’m a Buddhist and besides karma I also believe what you put out in the universe will manifest in different ways. All good.

    1. Thank you. Well, I know you’re glad that you don’t have to deal with having those bad friends anymore. Now you enjoy life with your genuine friends. I agree with you when you said “I also believe what you put out in the universe will manifest in different ways.” It proves to be true in most situations.

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