Argumentative People on Social Media

Why are most people on social media argumentative? I swear they have huge balls behind their phone or computer. This is why I refrain from commenting on certain posts. I am the type of person who can’t stand going back and forth with others unless I have a reason to. Most of the time the social media stuff is not that deep. People love to get in their feelings when you have a honest opinion.

For example, last night I commented on a YouTube video stating my thoughts on the video. The video was about a famous YouTuber getting exposed because supposedly he is cheating on his girlfriend. Read the picture below to see what I commented:

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Okay, so you read what I commented right? There are 14 replies on it. 2 or 3 people out of the 14 replies were coming out me funny/crazy because of what I said. My thing is I don’t care if  you reply to my comment but don’t try to start an argument with me. Sometimes people fail to realize it’s not what you say it’s how you say it. For some reason before I publish the comment I had a feeling someone was going to try to start something for no reason.

Anyways, some of the rude replies was telling me to “use my head or brain” basically trying to call me stupid. Also, calling me a little kid who believe in fantasy relationships. First of all, I wanted to come through my phone and curse them out. Y’all it was burning me inside. Then I thought to myself it’s pointless and stupid to argue back with them. Another thing I want to mention is I think the whole relationship goals stuff is stupid to a certain extent. Clearly the person was talking junk and don’t know anything about me.

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On thing I did do is reply back to one of the negative comments. Basically I told the person I understand their point. The supposedly side chick could’ve sneak and record her with the famous YouTuber. She wouldn’t be the first person to try that. Read the picture below (I marked out the person name I was replying to out of respect):

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So, after I replied back saying that. The person wanted to make it into a big argument. I decided to not reply. It’s childish. Then with the other negative comments I left it alone. Now I fully understand why celebrities turn off their comments on social media. I don’t blame them at all.

Anyways, back to what I was talking about. Random people on social media tend to find ways to turn something positive into something negative. In my situation, I believe the people in the replies wanted to prove me so wrong that they wasn’t trying to understand my point of view. The main reason why I wasn’t quick to call the man a cheater in the comments because…

1) I wasn’t there with him if he was messing around with the woman.

2) There are so many individuals who make up scandals on YouTube just so they can become the next big thing

3) I clearly pointed out that I am not trying to say the man is innocent at all.

I guess they couldn’t comprehend what I was trying to get at. Maybe they should use their BRAIN! lol Why am I being petty? Arguments always happen on social media it’s mainly up to you whether or not you want to entertain the bull shit. What are your thoughts about people being argumentative on social media? Do you think I took my situation last night in the wrong way? Put your thoughts in the comment section.

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Reached My Breaking Point!!!!

Sometimes I wonder why I have to be stuck in this miserable ass town. I’m trying to not get swallow in the big hole of being stuck here forever. I keep asking God “why me?” Everyone else has a chance to be free and enjoy life. I barely get a chance to feel like a real adult. There’s always some shit that’s trying to hold me back. I’m tired of it all.

There are times where I reflect on how miserable my life is. I’m young and should be enjoying myself. Most of the time I have no choice but to stay in the house. It gets depressing at times. I don’t have any real friends to hang out with. If I do it’s every blue moon. Fuck having friends anyway. They always tend to be temporary anyway. The only thing that’s pushing me to live a little is to make my dreams come true. It’s my only hope and brings me happiness. If I don’t succeed in that then what’s the point in pushing forward?

I’m always getting my feelings crush. Honestly, I’m used to it. The only person I can depend on is myself. Everyone around me is full of negative energy. There’s no one there to at least uplift me. They’re miserable with their life and trying to rub it off on me. I’m not going to be like them. I will be better than them. I’ve reached my breaking point. That’s why I’m living for ME! I can’t keep letting these obstacles bring me down.

At this point, I’m starting to think what’s my purpose of being here? To live a fucking miserable life? All my life, I’ve been invisible anyway. Everyone treats me like a non-factor. Even the ones I personally know. Some of them are reading this post. It’s not because they care it’s because they want to be fucking nosey. They don’t give a fuck. I don’t care for them anyway to be completely honest. This is me expressing how I feel if anybody feels some type of way about it. I don’t care about that neither.

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Letter to my Nosey Neighbors Across the Street

Dear Nosey Neighbors,

Why are you always outside watching people? Go in the house! It annoys me how every time I go outside y’all are staring at me. That makes me feel uncomfortable. Let’s be real, no one wants to be stared at especially every time they leave out of the house. Just like you’re watching me. I know there is someone else watching you. Some days I wish it would thunderstorm outside so you won’t come out the house.

Sometimes that doesn’t even stop you from watching everyone in the neighborhood. Another thing I dislike is when you have company over your house. I mean it’s your house and you can do whatever you want but do you have to talk your company in the front yard on the porch. They look suspicious and I don’t like it. When I come outside they stare just as bad as you do. It’s a shame I have to go through this every day.

 

Sincerely,

Annoyed Neighbor

Do any of my readers have nosey neighbors they want to get rid of? 

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© Reflection of Des 2017

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Chaos in America

I know other countries around the world is laughing at us. I’m so ashamed of the country that I live in now. Trump is bringing in a lot of extra chaos that shouldn’t have happened in the first place. It makes me sick to my stomach that most people in America voted for him. Then again I’m not surprised that they did because of how hateful some American people can be. America was a place to enjoy freedom. Now it’s turning into a corrupted country with a hateful, racist, and disrespectful president. It’s heartbreaking to know that Trump will ruin the opportunity for me to explore the world just because he wants to be an evil person and get on the other countries bad side. He’s creating a disturbing picture of innocent Americans that don’t want any problems with anybody. All I can really do is pray for my country. I just want world peace. I love everyone equally! Anybody that knows me well knows how much I want to bring everyone together as a family.It makes me frustrated that most people rather cause hate than just to love everyone equally. I don’t want everyone to be against each other. If I had the chance to change the world into a better place I would.

© Reflection of Des 2017

 

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